Ajaatshatru – Mallela Srinivasa Murthy leaves
for Heavenly abode
In the quiet, early hours of the 4th of
November, 2026, the soul of Mallela Srinivasa Murthy garu, departed this
earthly realm for his heavenly abode. He
was my bavagaru (brother-in-law), the cherished husband of my younger sister,
but to all who knew him, he was an Ajatashatru—a rare being born
without malice, and lived his entire life without a foe
He was a gentleman par excellence, a noble spirit, and a professional of the highest order. Yet in the sanctuary of family, his light shone brightest. He was a devoted son, loving and dutiful husband, a tender father, a steadfast brother, a loyal brother-in-law, and the beloved Chacha and Mama. In truth, the reverence we held for him was second only to the profound respect we had for our own father.
He was an extremely gentle and soft-spoken person. A man of few words, he never uttered a single word more than what was required, yet his actions spoke volumes. He lived his life with an innate generosity, always ready to extend a helping hand to anyone in need, with assistance arriving silently and without ever being asked. To know him was to witness a marvel of human nature. It often seemed as though, while creating him, God forgot to put in the flaws we so commonly find in normal human beings—there was no trace of anger, irritation, hatred, jealousy, or arrogance in his soul. He was entirely devoid of disloyalty, disrespect, cunning, cruelty, impoliteness, gossip, or greed.
In a highly competitive corporate world, his unwavering nobility was both amazing and inspiring. While I always wondered how a man of such a soft nature and adjusting temperament could survive in today's fierce society, he navigated it with effortless grace. When gently asked if he feared people would take undue advantage of his kindness, he would simply laugh it off, offering his signature wisdom: "I do not allow such thoughts to cross my mind; I just keep doing things."
The
Family Man - A devoted husband and a caring father
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As
a father, his love was a quiet, doting sanctuary. From the very moment his children were born,
he chose not to bind them with heavy expectations, but to give them wings. In a
world where so many fathers demand paths of engineering or medicine, he looked
at his son, Tejas, and simply listened to his soul. He blessed him with the
freedom to chase the beautiful strains of Carnatic classical music and the
violin. He believed in their dreams,
trusted their hearts, and when the time came, he gently stepped back to let
them choose the life partners who would walk beside them. He didn’t just raise a family—he nurtured
their spirits with an unconditional love that will echo through their lives
forever.
He was a
remarkable soul whose life was a masterclass in devotion, family values, and
selfless love. He was, above all, a
magnificent son. For most of his life,
and right until the very end, his father lived with him in Hyderabad—a home
anchored by ultimate care and respect. I vividly remember the quiet, tender
moments that defined his character: despite a demanding professional schedule,
he could often be found sitting by the side of his elderly father, gently
applying oil to his head and cutting his toenails. He made sure his father was always engaged,
always heard, and deeply cared for in every possible way.
When
Deepti & Teju brought their lives home to him, he did not just open the
door; he opened his heart.
To
him, a son-in-law or a daughter-in-law was never an outsider crossing a
threshold, nor a guest to be managed. He welcomed them with an unconditional
warmth, offering the exact same steady grace, teasing affection, and fierce
protection he gave to the children who had grown beneath his own roof.
In
time, familiar mirrors began to show themselves across the generations. Just as
my brother-in-law carried the unmistakable stamp of his father-in-law's
mannerisms and mind, so too did Satish—his son-in-law—wear those same
quiet traits like a second skin, reflecting a kinship forged not by blood, but
by spirit.
And
then there was Apoorva. I looked closely, year after year, and could
never find a single seam where his care for his daughter Deepti ended
and his care for Apoorva began. Together, he and my sister wove a space so
gentle and sure that she did not merely join the family—she took root in it,
blossoming into the very pulse of the home
The
joy only deepened when the silence of the house was broken by the laughter of
twin granddaughters, arriving like a long-awaited blessing. Across the miles,
stretching all the way to America, he poured his days into them, holding the
future in his hands and letting his happiness multiply.
His dedication was absolute and hands-on.
When his father gave their land for development, he poured his heart into
ensuring its success. Every single
morning, he could be found at the project site, meticulously supervising the
construction progress, collaborating with contractors, and providing precise
instructions—all before heading to his own office to start his workday. That same tireless spirit continued long
after the building was complete. For
over 25 years, until just six months ago, he single-handedly managed the
maintenance of the entire property consisting of 16 houses – half of them sold
by the builder long ago to different owners. He freely gave an immense amount
of his own time, energy, and effort to ensure everything was taken care of,
never once complaining, and always placing the well-being of others above his
own. His legacy of profound responsibility, quiet resilience, and boundless
generosity will forever remain in the hearts of his family and all who knew
him.
A qualified Company
Secretary and Lawyer, he dedicated over 45 years of his life to a career
marked by diligence, sincerity, honesty, integrity and the highest standards of
professional ethics. He was what is fondly known as a ‘Lambi
race ka Ghoda’—a steadfast pillar of strength and long-term commitment.
In an entire career spanning nearly five decades, he chose to lend his
brilliance to only a select few organizations, serving 16 years with DCL
Finance and 26 years with NCC Limited. He resisted the temptation of many better
professional opportunities he got, preferring stability. To those who entrusted him with
responsibilities, he was a rare treasure. Once a task was given to him, there
was never a need to look back; he treated every piece of work with the care,
passion, and ownership of a deeply personal mission. His unwavering honesty,
competence, and hardworking nature earned him the highest degree of trust and
respect from company owners, Chairman, Executive Directors and Boards of
Directors alike. His professional legacy
remains an inspiring blueprint of loyalty, excellence, and dedication.
For many
years, the workplace was truly his "home away from home."
He shared a deep, unbreakable bond with the late Chairman of NCC, Raju Garu, who
repeatedly refused to let him retire, saying that as long as I am there, you be
around as long as your health permits. In
a deeply poignant turn of events, he has followed Raju Garu just two weeks
after the Chairman's own passing.
Known for his exceptional work ethic and gentle personal nature, he earned the highest regard and deepest respect from every single member of the organization—from the office staff and peons to the department heads, Executive Directors, and owners. He treated everyone with equal dignity and kindness. His legacy of commitment, integrity, and profound professional excellence will live on in the hearts of his colleagues forever.
Care and Love
for Parents-in-law and brothers-in-law
They say that
love, in its purest form, is not bound by blood, but chosen by the heart. My
brother-in-law is living proof of that truth.
Having lost his mother at a heartbreakingly young age, he carried a
quiet, empty space in his heart for years. But the day he married my sister, that void
was filled most beautifully. In his mother-in-law, he finally found the
maternal warmth he had missed since childhood, seeing his own mother's spirit
alive in her. He shared a profound connection with his father-in-law, their
common traits and mutual respect weaving a bond as deep as any biological
father and son.
When his
father-in-law passed away, leaving behind a heavy silence, my sister and
brother-in-law opened their doors wider. They constantly invited my mother to live with them, refusing to let her feel the sting of
loneliness.
But it was
during the terrifying, uncertain days of the pandemic that his and my sister's love
truly transformed into something exemplary. As the world gripped itself in
fear, he and my sister shielded my mother with a fierce, tender devotion. They
built a fortress of care around her, anticipating every need, soothing every
anxiety, and sacrificing their own comfort to keep the virus at bay. Thanks to
their tireless, watchful, and deeply affectionate protection, she was kept
completely safe from the pandemic's touch.
It is a rare and beautiful thing to witness a son-in-law become a true
son, a protector, and a sanctuary. His devotion is a quiet reminder of what
family really means—not just the one we are born into, but the one we build
with love, tenderness, and grace.
In 41 years of family bonds and shared memories, he stood as a rare beacon of kindness, grace, and unconditional goodwill. He possessed the extraordinary gift of seeing the best in everyone. Throughout over four decades of deep association, there was never a single instance where he spoke a negative word about anybody—whether in their presence or behind their back. Even in casual conversations, if the talk turned toward criticism, he refused to participate. Instead of offering judgment or opinion, he would simply laugh it off, defusing the moment with humour and warmth. He was a man of rare grace. Shouting, arguing, and the use of uncivil or unparliamentary language were entirely foreign to him. Instead, he chose to speak through his calm demeanour and an inherently peaceful approach to everyone he met.
Deeply religious, disciplined and kind-hearted

He led a
beautifully disciplined life, anchored by deep religious faith. His days began
and ended with daily prayers, and he found his greatest peace in spiritual
journeys. Among his many travels, his pilgrimages to the Raghavendra Swamy Math,
Shringeri, and Tirupati remained his most cherished and favoured destinations. He held the Pundits engaged for the pujas in
high esteem and rewarded them liberally for their services.

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Steadfast in his principles and quite unlike the average Telugu guy, he carved his own quiet path. He lived a life detached from modern distractions, rarely watched movies and completely avoided street food and restaurant dining. He possessed a profound appreciation for the sanctity of a home-cooked meal. For over 25 years, his dedication to this simple lifestyle was absolute—he carried his lunchbox to the office every single day, with Perugannam (curd rice) being his absolute favourite. He once shared that in a quarter-century of service with NCC, he had only eaten in the office canteen twice. On the rare occasions he dined out with his family, he stayed true to his simple preferences, choosing only Idly and Upma, while completely passing on dosas, vadas, or samosas.
He was a man
defined by the extraordinary depth of his compassion. He possessed a rare and
deeply kind heart that extended warmth to every living being. Whether it was a
fellow human being, a stray animal, a passing bird, or the plants he tended to,
he treated all of creation with unmatched gentleness and respect. It is a cruel
irony that a life so dedicated to nurturing the world around him was cut short
by a severe, life-threatening lung infection contracted from inhaling pigeon
droppings.
None of us could have ever expected someone so full of life to face such a sudden health crisis. Having recently left the office, he was at the dawn of a beautifully deserved retirement—a time meant for slowing down and enjoying the fruits of his labour alongside his devoted wife, his beloved children, and his two cherished twin granddaughters. Fate, however, cruelly snatched him away at the wrong time, depriving him of the years he so deeply deserved to spend watching his family grow. While his absence leaves a void that can never be filled, the legacy of his kindness, his gentle spirit, and his boundless love for all living things will live on forever in the hearts of those who were touched by him
He proved to
us all that pure goodness can thrive anywhere. He leaves behind a legacy of
quiet strength, boundless compassion, and unmatched integrity. He lived a truly great and meaningful life. He
will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who knew him. I will miss the gentle grace of his disarming
smile, the warmth that met me at every threshold, and a love that asked for
nothing in return. He held my victories
up to the light, celebrating every step with genuine pride. I tried so hard to
mirror his strength, to walk in the footsteps you left behind, yet his goodness was a height I could never quite reach. Like my father before him, he stood alone— a rare and irreplaceable soul.
No one else will ever fill the space you left behind
Brother-in-law
4th November, 2026

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