UNRELIABLE
CHICKEN-HEARTED MALE (BOY) FRIENDS
One common thing in the three
unfortunate rape cases that have happened recently in three metro cities, Delhi
(Nirbhay case), Bangalore (Infosys campus) and Mumbai (photo journalist case),
was that in all the three cases the girls were with their male friends and in none
of the three incidents it appears that the macho man have not done much to
protect the young girl with whom they were moving. Either they were tied or got a small bashing
by which they kept quiet and it appears they did not do much to save the girl
before the unfortunate incident or even after the ghastly act was over.
In the recent Mumbai incident it was
reported that the victim and accompanying male were taken to the nearby railway
station and put in a train.
Understandably the girl must have been great trauma and was not in a position to re-group herself so
soon but what made the male friend not to raise alarm at the station or enroute
and get them arrested and grapple with atleast one or two and pin them
down. If I am not mistaken they were
not in possession of knives or fire arms.
I am more than sure that if these girls were with their old and weak father or
a brother they would have put a far higher degree of resistance to save the
girl.
So my advice to all young girls,
especially those going out late in the evening/night or to seclude places or
parks or abandoned monuments to be conscious of the fact that the boy/male accompanying
you is going to run away or comfortably get pinned down without much resistance
and you need to fend yourself or become pray.
Whatever packs (4, 6 or 8) he must be flexing are cosmetic or steroid
driven, neither he has the guts or macho-ness to put stiff resistance in a bit
to save the girl. It is only in the
reel life that our hero bashes up 10 to 20 goons to save his heroin, but in the
real life, unfortunately, it is a different ball game.
It is unreasonable to expect the Police to be everywhere, considering our population and short staffed and ill equipped police force. Added to this, police is used less for policing and more for security services for VIP and VVIPs and crowd control for various procession and Dharnaas which take place on a daily basis. But unfortunately they are used as the fall guys whenever such incidents happen. If police try to be pro-active and shoo away young girls and boys from parks and seclude places they are blamed for doing morale policing. Is it possible for the police to appear wherever and whenever you want them.
It is unreasonable to expect the Police to be everywhere, considering our population and short staffed and ill equipped police force. Added to this, police is used less for policing and more for security services for VIP and VVIPs and crowd control for various procession and Dharnaas which take place on a daily basis. But unfortunately they are used as the fall guys whenever such incidents happen. If police try to be pro-active and shoo away young girls and boys from parks and seclude places they are blamed for doing morale policing. Is it possible for the police to appear wherever and whenever you want them.
S.
Prabhakar
25.8.2013